the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.
I know some of these weak, small males. I don't use the word man because they are not men. Real men protect women and stand true to their words and responsibilities. Life is better because of those men.
You are allowed to terminate your relationship with toxic family members. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry & selfish & unforgiving & don't owe anyone an explanation for taking care of you.
The name of their game is deny, deny, deny even with the facts glaring them in the face! They blame and lie about their victim to make themselves look good. A Narcissist always turning the blame around to you.