I rarely do this . I've had things thrown back in my face so many times that I make a conscious effort not to put people I care about in the same awkward position . grow up, either you trust the person or you don't and if you don't gtfo.
Virgo - Very accurate. Yes, I'll whine about minor little pains that really feel like nothing, but when it comes to large and extreme pain, both mental and emotional, I won't say a word. this is how I handle my fibro and hip and back pain