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Most men cannot listen to a woman's feelings and realize the way he handles it, responds to it, what he does from that moment on sets the tone. Often she's not bitching to bitch, she's needing you to hear something and learn. Her expression of her feelings and needs does not make her a bitch.
"People don’t usually think about what they need or what will remedy the situation. They think negatively about what their partner should stop doing to ease their own irritation or disappointment. But the positive need is a way that their partner can shine for them." Read more on The Gottman Relationship Blog: